How to Stimulate the Prostate Gland

Aptly called "the male G-Spot" because of its ability to produce earth-shattering orgasms, the prostate is helping men of all ages and orientations take sexual satisfaction to new depths. The prostate is a donut-shaped gland that wraps around the urethra and can be stimulated by a finger, penis or toy inserted into the anus. Men who explore prostate stimulation are being rewarded with some of the best sexual experiences of their lives!

1. Go it Alone.

   We recommend that you fly solo for your initial prostate probe, so you are in total control of the pace and depth of your explorations.

2. Relax and clean up.

   A warm shower with some added soapy attention to your butt hole is a great way to relax and get into your body. It can also help lessen any apprehensions you may have about encountering feces, as will the use of a latex glove.

3. Add lubricant

   Once you're ready, a nice thick lubricant like Slippery Stuff Gel and smooth fingernails are musts for successful prostate stimulation. Since the anus does not self-lubricate, you'll want to use generous amounts of whatever lube you have on hand.

4. Easy does it.

   With lube on your fingertip and your anus, press gently on your anus with the pad of your finger as you push out (as if you were going to the bathroom). Your sphincter muscles will relax, and your finger should pop in.

5. Explore.

   Once inside, curve your finger toward your belly button, and feel for a textured, ridged area about two to three inches inside. Some folks liken the feel of the prostate to that of the surface of a walnut.

6. Experiment.

   Prostates enjoy a variety of sensations from firm pressure to rhythmic movement to vibrations, so try some different movements until you find your favorite.

7. Add toys.

   Butt plugs and smooth dildos feel great on the prostate and can be easier to maneuver than your hand, so check out these toys on the Babeland site for more specific suggestions. Just make sure your toy has a flared base.

8. Add partners.

   Once you know what you like, it'll be that much easier to show your lover how to please you!