Partner Play

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If you want to stimulate your lover's G-spot during intercourse, certain positions provide better access than others. If you'll be using a strap-on dildo, we recommend the Commando harness (it's secure and comfortable), and a firm, silicone dildo with a curve toward the tip, like the Magnum. If you'd like a more detailed guide on finding your partner's G-spot, check out our helpful How To. In the discussion below, "you" refers to the active partner; the one who is stimulating his or her partner's G-spot.

Doggie Style (or Rear Entry)

One of the most preferred positions for G-spot stimulation, doggie style provides good access to her G-spot, and works well when you want to trade off who controls the motion—you can thrust, or she can rock back onto you.  Have your partner bend over the side of the bed, or prop herself up on her hands and knees, while you enter her from behind. You want the tip of your penis or dildo to rub against your partner's G-spot, so experiment with different positions to find what works best. Have your partner arch her back like a cat or relax her belly down toward the bed to discover what feels best.

Spoons Position

If your arms get tired from propping yourselves up in the traditional rear entry position, try the spoons position, as it offers many of the same benefits as doggie style, but puts less stress on your body. Lie on your sides in the spoons position, so that your front is pressed up against her back. Because you're so close together, your penis or dildo will be in constant contact with her G-spot. This position works very well for people of many sizes and ranges of mobility.

Woman on Top

Many women claim that the woman on top position is the one that pushes them over the top, orgasmically speaking. Because she controls the speed and pressure used on her G-spot, she can make fine adjustments to the position or motion until she finds what she likes best. In this position, she straddles you and leans back. As she leans back and pushes her hips forward, your penis or dildo will tilt up farther toward the G-spot. Have her experiment with sliding forward and back or bouncing up and down.

Manual Stimulation

G-spot stimulation can be a precision art, so use your own fingers or a toy to find out what she likes best. Once you discover what gets her off in terms of pressure, speed, and aim, you'll have a better idea of how to incorporate that into intercourse. While there are thousands of positions you can use for this, some of them will fatigue you before you’re done! Have your partner sit on a comfortable arm chair with her legs propped over the arms, while you kneel between her legs on the floor. She can also lay back on the bed, but prop her butt up with a pillow. It's great to start with your fingers so you get the lay of the land, but consider introducing a toy, preferably one with a handle like the Archer Wand or Galaxy G, so she can experience firm pressure. Make sure your fingers or the toy's curve are pointed up toward your belly when you enter her, and then experiment with pressure and motion to see what she likes best.